Self Made & Single™
This podcast is all about bringing on female entrepreneurs to talk about why they are at the top their niche. We also want women like you to get behind the mic and spill the tea on the ins and outs on of dating as a successful business owner.
On the show, we explore our self made guests' dating life. We talk about everything from their last breakup, to the dodgy Hinge date from last weekend to that ex that thought it was cool to message your mother on her birthday...
So what is the end goal of this show?
Think of this as a global, on-demand mastermind to help today's Alpha and Sigma women demystify the journey to finding love. By listening, the aim is for the audience to grow from their own experiences and take ownership of where things might be going left.
Self Made & Single™
Get Into Your "Let The Best Man Win" Energy PART 3
Detaching from the 3 Ws and 1 Hs
In today’s session we are looking at part 3 of the “get in your let the best man win” energy.
So many women talk to me about being burnt our when it comes to dating because they are attached to the physical people they meet rather than being in an unbreakable relationship with LOVE itself.
Now what does THAT mean?
That means getting rid of the idea that you think you know who’s best for you and allow plenty of room for surprises and miracles to drop into your life - ALL WITH THE DEEP KNOWING THAT YOU ARE GOING TO GET THE BEST MAN FOR YOU ANYWAY.
This is something I help clients with on a daily basis with my private coaching.
If my message resonates with you then a free 60 min Soulmate Strategy call is the thing that is going to take you from feeling like other women are just luckier than you to knowing exactly what to do to replicate your own version of dating success - REGARDLESS of what method you use to find men aka this works if you’re an app queen or you’re more of an organic meeting kind of woman.
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okay, instagram, we are live for part three of get in your let the best man win energy. As you can see, I am very much on my way out and I had to just drop by and give you guys a third part of this particular series of lives. Like I said, I will be just checking. I'm recording my yep and my lap beat. Great, I will be live for, like most of april, right, so tune in when you can and when you can't get the replay, because there's going to be a lot of wisdom drops micro wisdom drops I'll be dropping throughout the month, so stay tuned. So, as promised, this is part three. We've seen so much over the last couple of days that I've even got DMs from you guys saying oh my god, like this is genius.
Speaker 1:These little, small tips are really big shift makers, honestly, because going into the dating world and not having this let the best man win energy is what makes people burn out so fast. Because if you're thinking that every single person you meet is going to be the one, or that any kind of slight energy shift means that everything is over, then you're going to burn out so quick, so fast and you're not going to be able to have that stamina to stay in for the long run, because, when it comes to dating, we are supposed to be in there for the long game. We're dealing with human beings, we're not dealing with robots, and so if you do have someone who is a little bit off sometimes, or you know, the whole sequence of getting to know someone to get to be committed is doesn't seem linear. Just trust me, that means you're dealing with a healthy human being that is just dealing with life and dealing with things that maybe, at some point during your relationship, they will talk about and they'll get a little bit more detailed about. But until then, you treat every single person with the love and care and compassion that you would treat yourself. You treat every single person with the love and care and compassion that you would treat yourself. So, that being said, the last part of the get in your the best man, win energy is.
Speaker 1:The last secret ingredient is think about the best case scenario, and that's not just a case of oh, I'll just be positive and you know that will do. We're talking about getting very, very, very specific with the universe. So really get specific about what you want, what is the best case scenario for you and then just detach from that idea, detach from how it's going to happen, when it's going to happen, from what person that's going to come from, and just watch the magic happen. And with that, a really good tip is be attached to the idea of finding that soulmate connection, get attached to the idea of you being verymate connection, get attached to the idea of you being very much able to manifest this type of love and then just let the universe do its work. Don't try and outsmart the universe, don't try and manipulate a situation to work with a specific person because, oh, they're a doctor or they're a lawyer. That seems great on paper and that's what I think I need. The universe knows so much of their conversations and scenarios and energies that the universe can see and experience and it's always looking out for you. Right, do not try and work against it and try and think that you know what the best case scenario is for you when people, specifically when, when a particular soul contract ends earlier than you think it's gonna end, or the dynamics of that particular relationship change. Just know that everything is happening for your greatest good and the best case scenario is always playing out for you. It's always every single step, every single relationship that you encounter in terms of whether it's short, long term, when you're just working towards getting towards that more long-term, stable relationship, everything counts. Everything is a learning part, a part of your path, okay, and so it's a very short and sweet one. Today, that is the last part of get in your let the best man win energy and just using those three tips that you've learned over the past. Now, 72 hours. I would love to know how they're working for you. You know where to find me. I'm currently live on Instagram, but you can also find me on TikTok. You find me on YouTube. You can email me. I'm in all the spots. I'm also on Facebook. So, ah, speaking of Facebook.
Speaker 1:So two things after I've just dropped this step. First of all, if you're feeling like, right, okay, but these three steps, I'm going to try them out, but I already feel very much supported by Rachel, like. I feel like this is more of the vibe I'm looking for. There are loads of us different relationship experts all over the internet and we all have our different vibe, our different style and flavor. This is mine. If you feel like you want to work a little bit more on that and work more on the mindset, because you know the mindset is the part that is like the majority of what's messing you up. Then hit the link in my bio slash profile depending on where you're watching this and get yourself a free soulmate strategy call. So, on the call, we'll look at what it is that you're doing right now, what is not working and what key practical steps that you can start doing as of now, as in right, right now, moving forward to change what you're experiencing.
Speaker 1:So top thing that I get in terms of complaint is the quality of men that are coming through. You know men that are ghosting, men that are non-committal. Let's have a look at that. Let's tweak that together. Let's see where there's a gap in either your energy or any of the practical work that you've been doing. So, as I said, it's a free 60 minute call. It's so, so, so good guys.
Speaker 1:At the end, yes, of course there will be the opportunity to work with me in a private coaching setting. That's when you get going to get the biggest transformation. You get a micro transformation from soulmate strategy. You know, calling or sitting with me in this soulmate strategy call, of course you will. I guarantee that you will. But the real, real change and shift. If you want to make 2024 the year that things start working much differently for you, then I highly recommend considering private coaching. This is when you're going to get that one-to-one action from me, and currently I'm not doing any group coaching. It's all you and I in a really intimate container where everything is tailored to you. So the links in my bio, as I said, click work with me and then click private coaching. You'll be led straight to the free soulmate strategy call love. You all have a great rest of your weekend and I'll see you soon. Thank you.